Finding Balance in Life

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I often talk to my clients about the need for balance in life. Collins Thesaurus provides some lovely synonyms for the word ‘balance’, such as stability, composure, steadiness, and equanimity. I gained a more in depth understanding of ‘equanimity’ over a decade ago when I did my first 10 day silent meditation retreat – equanimity means calmness of mind. This concept takes on a whole new meaning when one is sitting in meditation for most of the day, in utter silence. There may be bliss in the silence, however the body complains bitterly when forced to remain in a still seated position for hours at a time. This is where one learns equanimity at a deep level.

So what does this have to do with balance? Well, I think it is important that we take time out in our busy day to take a breath, be at peace and find that calmness of mind.

Balance encompasses all areas of our lives, from business to family, friends, exercise, learning and education, and of course hobbies and fun. [Read more…]

5/2 days Clutter Detox

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I read an interesting article this morning in the current ‘Next’ magazine regarding the 5/2 diet, which is essentially about being ‘good’ for 2 non-consecutive days of the week, and then doing what you want to do for the remaining 5 days. The principle around the 2 non-consecutive days is that you don’t feel deprived as you know you are only doing the detox practice for 24 hours at a time.

Here are some examples given in the article: 5/2 days diet where you eat normally for 5 days of the week and have 2 days of light healthful eating; 2 days a week positively working on your relationship; 2 days a week focusing on a fitness regime; 2 days a week with no technology [that would be tough for most of us]; and the alcohol detox where you don’t drink at all for 2 days of the week. What a great idea and I think this could actually be applied in many areas of our lives.

What I love about the idea is that we’re basically thinking about good habits and actions for 2 days out of 7, which with time can potentially become practices that we decide to incorporate into even more days of the week. [Read more…]

5/2 days Clutter Detox

I read an interesting article this morning in the current ‘Next’ magazine regarding the 5/2 diet, which is essentially about being ‘good’ for 2 non-consecutive days of the week, and then doing what you want to do for the remaining 5 days. The principle around the 2 non-consecutive days is that you don’t feel deprived as you know you are only doing the detox practice for 24 hours at a time.

Here are some examples given in the article: 5/2 days diet where you eat normally for 5 days of the week and have 2 days of light healthful eating; 2 days a week positively working on your relationship; 2 days a week focusing on a fitness regime; 2 days a week with no technology [that would be tough for most of us]; and the alcohol detox where you don’t drink at all for 2 days of the week. What a great idea and I think this could actually be applied in many areas of our lives.

What I love about the idea is that we’re basically thinking about good habits and actions for 2 days out of 7, which with time can potentially become practices that we decide to incorporate into even more days of the week.

So here’s my idea, why not create a 5/2 days clutter detox plan. For 2 days of the week you can concentrate on the clutter you have in your home, really take a good look at it and start thinking about how you can start decluttering. My suggestions would be:

– Create your plan by deciding on what area of your home you want to work on for each of the 2 days. Just start with a small area, maybe the kitchen cupboards on one day, and the kitchen drawers on the 2nd day.
– Once you’ve done your mini-declutter each day, start picking up items around the house that you know belong somewhere else and put them away.
– Throw into your recycling container the old newspapers and TV guides, and any other old papers lying around.
– Bring the family on board and explain the plan to them. Ask them, for those 2 days of the week, to focus on putting their things away. So for the entire 2 days, you all concentrate on putting away school bags, clothes, papers, etc so that no one is leaving anything lying around. I suggest that you have 2 set days of the week when you do this so everyone remembers what day they absolutely have to put their gear away in its rightful place.

The benefits of this plan are obvious:

– You have your Declutter plan in place, and you know exactly what you are going to focus on for those 2 days. Follow this plan for a few weeks and your home will be decluttered in no time.
– You are also creating good habits for the whole family as they get used to putting their things away when they get home from school or work. These habits will soon become embedded and everyone may even start automatically returning items to their correct place.
– You will all get to enjoy a clutter free home, and feel the difference.

If you do decide to follow this plan, I would love to hear how you get on with it. And do contact me if you have any questions, or get stuck when you’re working on your plan. I’m happy to give you practical solutions and ideas to help you work yourself out of the clutter.

As always, if you would like the services of an expert in decluttering and organising, I would love to help you. After almost eight years as a declutterer, I’ve seen every type of clutter problem there is and there is absolutely a solution for every difficult area in the home.

I hope you have a wonderful month and that you’re enjoying this beautiful Spring weather we’re having.

In Joy!

Angella Gilbert

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M: 027 224 8937
E: angella.gilbert@xtra.co.nz
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Spring Renewal

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Spring is just around the corner; it’s a glorious time of the year when nature renews itself after the sleepy Winter months. And it’s also a time when we too feel renewed and eagerly look forward to warmer days and outdoor activities.

Here are a couple of fun ideas on how to rejuvenate your surroundings to bring the beautiful Spring days indoors:

– Clear everything off your dining room table and make a gorgeous centerpiece of Spring flowers, or maybe a bowl of delicious looking seasonal fruit. [Read more…]

Are you a Hoarder?

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Are you a Hoarder? Probably not! After almost eight years as a declutterer/organiser, I have met very few compulsive hoarders. Many of my clients say to me: “my husband/wife is a hoarder”; or “I’m a hoarder”, but nine times out of ten hoarding is not the problem. It usually boils down to the fact that they’re holding onto too much stuff, and while they realise they need to declutter, it can be easier said than done. When someone is trying to do it on their own it can become overwhelming and this feeling most times will bring them to a complete standstill.

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